Gender Differences In Creativity, Wisdom, And Intimacy Are More Imagined Than Real

Science Gender Differences In Creativity, Wisdom, And Intimacy Are More Imagined Than Real Mark Travers Contributor Opinions expressed by Forbes Contributors are their own. I write about the world of psychology. New! Follow this author to stay notified about their latest stories.

Got it! Aug 30, 2022, 01:23pm EDT | New! Click on the conversation bubble to join the conversation Got it! Share to Facebook Share to Twitter Share to Linkedin New psychological research dispels common gender narratives. getty Many of us believe that men and women are two fundamentally different creatures. And it’s true, there are real biological differences between men and women.

But are those differences overstated? Fortunately, we have science to sort out the facts from fiction and re-balance the gender scales as required. Here are three snapshots of how men and women differ less than many of us might imagine. #1.

On creativity Psychological research shows that creativity is composed of the following qualities: A level of risk-taking Challenging the status quo to come up with unique and novel solutions Be assertive and independent Due to the apparent masculine nature of these qualities, “the general perception of creativity is that it is a man’s job,” according to psychologist Snehal Hora from the University of Buffalo School of Management. “Women are systematically less involved and underrated in tasks that require creativity. ” But does that mean that women are inherently less creative? Not at all, according to Hora’s research published in the Journal of Applied Psychology .

MORE FOR YOU New Research Finds A Connection Between Domestic Violence And These Two Personality Disorders This Scientist Helps Andean Forests And Ecuador’s Women In STEM Exceptional Fossil Preservation Suggests That Discovering Dinosaur DNA May Not Be Impossible Her study found that men were rated to have higher creative performance than women despite having equal creative abilities as men. This is because women are usually constrained by: Their own internalized gender roles The backlash they experience for engaging in what is perceived to be a masculine activity An important step to resolve this imbalance, according to Hora, is to make women aware of these internalized gender biases to help them overcome them. “Organizations and leaders need to take suitable measures and provide the right kind of environment such that women not only feel comfortable being creative but also view their creativity accurately,” she explains.

“Based on the findings of this research, an environment that fosters gender egalitarianism, kindness, equality, and concern for others is likely to be beneficial in boosting the creativity of women and men. ” #2. On wisdom According to psychiatrist Dilip Jeste, wisdom has several components: Empathy or compassion Control over one’s emotions Self-reflection Accepting uncertainty Accepting a diversity of perspectives Decisiveness Advising those who seek guidance Spirituality (a feeling of constant connectedness to an entity that is not seen or heard) Jeste’s recent study published in Frontiers in Psychology on the topic revealed that: Women scored higher on compassion and other pro-social components of wisdom as well as on self-reflection.

Men scored higher on decisiveness and showed greater control over their emotions. “Some wisdom experts argue that wisdom should be androgynous — i. e.

, it is not a trait belonging to a specific gender group,” explains Jeste. “However, some gender differences could be rooted in our existing sociocultural expectations of women and men. And, as gender norms change and gender equity improves, we may see these differences diminish.

” In most societies, according to Jeste, women and men are treated differently from infancy and this impacts what they believe wisdom is and how they distinguish a wise woman from a wise man. This may lead women and men to develop wisdom somewhat differently, both intentionally and unintentionally. While both men and women should be appreciated equally for the wisdom they bring to the table, Jeste gives us three wisdom skills to practice regardless of our gender: Seek to understand the perspectives of others with different backgrounds and viewpoints from your own Develop compassion by helping others in your community and participating in causes that serve a larger good Practice effective decision-making by slowing that process down and considering all the evidence #3.

On intimacy A study led by Emelie Constant published in the European Review of Applied Psychology examined how men and women express, define, and experience intimacy in romantic relationships. Intimacy, according to previous research, has been defined as the “emotional component of love” which relates to feelings of: Closeness Bondedness Connectedness Constant’s study added to this definition by showing that intimacy is: Interpersonal by nature (i. e, it must be founded on self-disclosure and responsiveness) Essential to well-being and human functioning, as well as fulfillment More importantly, the study revealed that: Women were more inclined to value communication, affection, and emotional closeness Men were more likely to value shared activities, joint leisure time, and sexual intimacy The antidote to this disparity can be found in the interpersonal nature of intimacy, which can be achieved through respect for each other’s character and sincere responsiveness.

This ensures that both members of the relationship honor the other’s experience and expression of intimacy. Conclusion Personality and trait differences between men and women are best viewed as complementary, not competitive. This is especially visible when we take the time we reassess our gender stereotypes in light of new scientific evidence.

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